Vacation
Tips Suggestions on how and where to enjoy your
precious time off.
The Pisces Woman: February 19 - March 20 by Susan Miller
The Pisces temperament is gentle, romantic,
caring, compassionate, and spiritual. Pisces rules the subconscious
mind, and so it follows that her dreams are vivid and meaningful,
even prophetic. You've got quite a glamorous sparkler on your
hands--Elizabeth Taylor, Sharon Stone and Cindy Crawford are
all dazzling Pisces, and each in their own way reflects the
reserved and unpretentious Pisces nature. Your Pisces enchantress
almost always has large and beautiful eyes which mirror her
feelings openly and she could be prone to cry easily. Soft
and ultra-feminine, she will put your needs ahead of hers.
Your Challenge
Her feelings are very sensitive and easily hurt, so be careful
how you address her. In any relationship, she likes to proceed
gradually, perhaps at a slower pace than you would like. But
rush her and your little fish will disappear into the depths
of the sea.
How To Handle Her
She's mystical and poetic and she needs a regular outlet for
her creative expressions. Her sign rules all non-verbal communication--symbols,
gesture, dance, art, and poetry--and the Pisces woman is highly
intuitive. She trusts her feelings and she reads body language
perfectly, so don't try to say one thing and mean another--she
will catch on quickly. Pisces will need to be alone occasionally
to recharge and refresh herself, so allow her time for that.
She's caring and sensitive to her man, but
can easily be so self-effacing that she forgets her own needs.
Her urge to relieve suffering in others is as strong as the
life force and it is the single most important element of
her nature to understand. Some people will sometimes take
advantage of her good nature. Her man should help her by reminding
her that it's OK to say no to favors others ask of her. At
times the world can have a wearing-down effect on her self-confidence,
which sometimes needs rebuilding in even the strongest Pisces
women. When Pisces is hurt, she will build her own version
of the world to protect herself, preferring to live in a world
of dreams until she feels she is ready for re-entry into reality.
Realize this is not a weakness--she will always come back--and
the worst thing you could say to this fragile beauty is "Get
real!"
Things To Do, Gifts
To Buy
Don't be overtly sexual with Pisces--she is subtle and indirect.
Come across brash and aggressive and she'll vanish. Instead,
give her a book of romantic poetry, like that of Edna St.
Vincent Millay or a beautiful black & white photograph of
a couple kissing. Or give her music, perhaps something soothing
and spiritual, such as Enya, Orion or Monks singing Gregorian
chant.
Buy her clothing in one of her favorite shades
of violet, blue or sea green. She loves lace, angora sweaters,
and prefers flowing, soft chiffon-type fabrics over sharp
tailoring. Silk is favored over crisp cotton. Sparkling jewels
look especially beautiful on her, so consider surprising her
with diamonds, amethysts or aquamarine stones. In choosing
a restaurant, pick a dark, private, romantic place filled
with flowers. She loves to dance (Pisces rules the feet) so
take her to a club with a great band. She also loves the movies,
for her ruler, Neptune, rules film and she can easily lose
herself in the story. She will also adore tickets to the ballet,
an art opening or a poetry reading. Finally, surprise her
a deluxe shower head for her bathroom (Pisces is a water sign),
promising her that the two of you will play under it soon.
Sex to Pisces is spiritual. She simply cannot
sleep with a man she isn't in love with. She's worth waiting
for--her natural sense of rhythm and grace in body movement
makes her a fabulous lover. This does not preclude her from
having fun with her lover--that is a certainty--but she will
need a full commitment of love from you before surrendering.
No other sign loves costume and fantasy as
much as Pisces does, so when you get to know her well, suggest
you both go shopping together for an outfit to wear in the
bedroom--a French maid? Cleopatra? Elvira, Mistress of the
Dark? Her rich imagination needs fantasy, so you will be on
the right track. If she is a reserved Pisces, give her a gift-wrapped
bottle of her favorite scent tucked inside the pocket of a
new luxurious terry robe. She'll be happy to try her new robe
on--just tell her the rules are that she wear nothing else.
Then draw her close to you, turn on the water in the bath
and take a long, passionate and steamy soak together. Afterwards,
be sure to rub on some of the softy scented cream that you
bought and let nature take its course!
